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I'm really attracted to islander looking guys, Samoan, Hawaiian, Maori, etc

 Oh dear
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 why?
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 Me too!
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 I dunno, just find them really sexy. Maybe it's the tribal aspect? Not sure, but watching the Hakka is pretty damn hot, even though I know it's not supposed to be!
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 (I wrote me too) for me it's because they're seen as so strong and powerful. And then every Maori, Samoan, Islander dad I've seen have been great with their kids. Like, amazingly patient and happy. But, of course this is a generalisation.
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 Once was warriors though
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 Every maori man I have known closely are either openly aggressive or way too nice...on the surface they are nice but turns out they were very passive aggressive.
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 Lol once were warriors isn't typical. Just the same as crocodile dundee isn't typical for Australians.

You've met some shitty people then.

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 I'm sure it's not the norm but definitely a stereotype, but I lived in an area with a high Maori population, lots of domestics and alcohol abuse. Really aggressive!
Maori friends always ended up fighting at social gatherings.

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I think about sex a lot. Way more than is normal I think. Just, all the time. Rarely with my husband. I'd never stray from our marriage bed. But I can imagine what I'd be doing if I was single and the other people consented.

I have quite a few secrets I’ve had since 4, if I told no one would believe it so I’m also taking them to my grave. I’ve never told a soul not even my husband of 15 years, if people knew the things I’ve done it would ruin every relationship I have and people would see me differently so I’ve never told anyone.

 Since 4? You poor thing, I hope no one stole your childhood from you.
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 You cant be blamed for anything you did at 4. The adults around you at the time are to blame.
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Debt I’ve let my whole family and the government down I’m too gutless to end my life because I don’t want to go to hell but the truth is what god will forgive me for the terrible things I have brought apond my family

 Sorry that was too deep I guess for most
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 Don’t be too hard on yourself. Ask yourself will this matter in 5-10 years time
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 How do you get into so much debt? Can you speak to a broker and come to a plan? All the best.
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 Already seen ths response a few posts back
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 ^now the post is under this one 😂
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 DOnt worry about letting the Government down! F**k them, they have let us all down.
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Yes & sorry not telling you

 Thieve
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I pick my nose and eat it. Fair dinkum.

 Classy
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 Eat an apple instead. Haha
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 Foul
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 While it's kinda gross, I've heard it's good for the immune system or something 😂
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 It's salty and a bit hard and sticky. I also eat my scabs. I always have. Not sure why.
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Yes I have many

 Do tell
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 Love my sons girlfriend
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How much debt we're struggling with.

 Might not be her fault. We are in debt because of my husbands gambling addiction that I knew nothing about.
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 My reply was a response to the troll post that has been deleted. So might look silly now.
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 I wrote this comment, and I saw the troll response haha. Don't worry, I appreciate your reply 🙂
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 ^I saw the troll post too.
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